Since the explosion of the Internet, online chat rooms, social networks, instant messagers and communities have become a popular networking tool. Like in-person networking, virtual networkers seek to cultivate long-term relationships, gain exposure and communicate with other professionals. Networking online is just as important as networking within your community. By networking online, you’re distinguishing yourself and getting your name out there in a very tangible and meaningful way. These communities allow you to connect like never before. In minutes, you can network with professionals thousands of miles away establishing relationships in areas never before reachable without huge marketing budgets.
But just like offline networking there is proper etiquette that must be abided by. “Managing our actions and behaviors in the virtual room is as important as how we behave in the ‘real’ rooms we visit,” states Susan RoAnne, author of How to Work a Room. Any time you engage in networking online remember to follow the rules of netiquette.
Don’t forget the human on the other side.
When communicating electronically, you lose the human aspect of communication. All the computer screen can provide is text. There are no facial expressions, gestures or tone of voice to communicate your message, only lonely text. With only text conveying the message, it’s easy to misinterpret a message’s meaning. It also makes it frighteningly easy to forget that your correspondent is a person with feelings. This makes us more prone to place hurtful, rude or anger-laden content in our messages. Plus, unlike verbal communication, your words can come back to haunt you in the form of written documentation. Before sending a message ask “would I say this to someone’s face?”
Know where you are.
Perfectly acceptable behavior in one community may not be acceptable in another. To avoid being rude or disrespectful to other group members, lurk before you leap. When entering a new community, take a look around to get a sense of how other members behave. Doing this allows you to figure out what type of behavior is acceptable and what type of behavior is not.
Don’t abuse your network.
Just as you wouldn’t abuse contacts in person, don’t abuse your connections online. You are not the center of attention. Don’t expect immediate responses to messages or postings. Also, respect other people’s time and bandwidth. When you send emails don’t send everyone everything, especially when forwarding emails. Have you ever connected with someone who forwarded you an average of five messages per day, none of which contained any important information just useless jokes and stories? If so, you’ll remember how annoying it was to be bombarded with useless information on a daily basis. Therefore, before you send a message, ask yourself if the person really needs to know the information. No one wants to remain connected with someone who wastes their time with unnecessary messages.
Walk a fine line between being a stiff and an over-sharer.
When in an online community there is a delicate balance between appearing as a boring stiff and over-sharing every detail of your life. Share a few well-chosen interests or charitable activities you enjoy. If you post information on an online profile only share information that is useful to that community. You don’t need to share every aspect of your life, even when in a social network like Myspace or Facebook. Keep it clean, tasteful, professional and engaging.
Be careful.
Every time you send a message or interact with someone online, think about the content of your message before sending it or publishing it. Check for sloppy grammar and spelling errors as well as any information that could potentially be misinterpreted. Once posted or sent there’s often no way of editing it.
Keep it professional.
While some sites, like Myspace or Facebook, promote a more social atmosphere don’t allow yourself to be careless in what you post. It may be tempting to post goofy pictures, humorous quotes, ranting blogs or videos of you out with friends but you need to keep it professional. You never know who will see your posting, message or online profile. You can post pictures, videos and write blogs just keep it tasteful and professional.
Remember networking is a two-way street.
Would you want to connect with a professional who is only out for his own benefit? Try to help others as much as possible. Networking is a two-street about building mutually beneficial long-term relationships. The more you do for others, the more likely they’ll return the favor.
Online and offline there are proper behaviors one must follow to get the most benefits from networking. By following the proper rules of netiquette you’ll enable yourself to build a strong online network that can lead to unlimited opportunities offline and online.